
Will you learn something new if you are being robbed at gunpoint?
Once you have contacted your ex again after break up, you will need to set up your “First Date” again.
And do you really know what is most important? Well, most probably, no one is going to reveal the secret to you. But it is really crucial that your date should be emotionally charged.
Is that ok?
Just a simple ‘dinner and movie’ don’t count.
Because…well…it’s BORING…and does not create a bonding…or in our case a RE-bonding experience.
The most ideal situation is if you are able to pack in several emotionally charged date within a span of a few hours.
Reason?
If you just do ‘dinner and a movie’ you lose out on a Sociologically PROVEN principle…
Bonding = Emotionally Charged Experiences
Look at it in another way.
Do you still remember the person queuing in from of you, the last time you went to the bank?
How about behind you?
Probably not. Me either.
Consider…
What happens if when you were in the bank, you happened to be robbed at gunpoint?
And the robbers couldn’t get the safe open. The robbers are livid, screaming and waving huge guns around. The tension feels so thick you could cut through it with a knife.
You have no choice but to lie down on the cold hard floor and you can even see your breath fogging the tiles below.
You are shaking and trembling, being scared out of your life.
“Oh no!”
“Where have the robbers gone?”
“Hope they are not behind me.”
“Hope they are not watching me.”
So you slowly move your eyes around and see a sweet older lady lying right next to you.
She even resembles your grandma. And then you noticed that she seems to be even more scared and terrified than you. In fact, she is even sobbing very softly.
Slowly, you reach out your hand and start to take her in yours, giving her a little squeeze. You comfort her by saying, “It is alright.”
So…
Let me ask?
Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?
And now…
Will she forget you?
That is highly unlikely!
Of course, I am not asking you to rob a bank on your first date!
However, you will want to go for an emotionally charged date, and better still… several mini dates within a couple of hours.
And how about a short roller coaster ride.

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