The Good Wink
This is one area where I’ve done a complete 180. I used to think it was downright cheesy and used too often by guys who were anything but suave and dashing. Until I saw it done right.
When a man flashed me a perfectly effortless wink, coupled with a little half smile, it really packed a wallop! The attraction was unmistakable. It’s unfortunate that not a lot of men can pull this off without looking lame, but when it works, it works well!
Get Rid Of The Dirt
Yes we like you when you’re rugged, sweaty and all manly, but only in certain situations. We don’t ask that you be perfectly pristine every minute of the day but when it comes to being presentable for work or a family function, knowing how to get rid of the dirt should be required training before you’re allowed to date.
And contrary to what you may believe, you don’t have to look like a Greek God either. We don’t want you to hold us to model standards, so we won’t do that to you. Fair is fair. However, personal hygiene counts for a lot. Major turnoffs include a forest of nose and/or ear hair, and dirty fingernails.
The Nose Knows
The general consensus is that most women hate a dude who drenches himself in cologne. That said, having a subtle but definite man smell is irresistible. Some women (right here!) think that an all-natural guy scent is a wonderful and alluring thing. Hello, pheromones! Other than that, picking a deodorant that smells great or using just one spritz of a sexy cologne is certainly attractive.
Laughing loud, often and with meaning
Men who are so concerned with looking cool that they can’t appreciate a good belly laugh when the opportunity comes up are just, um, lame. Laughter is infectious and when a lady is hanging around a guy who lets the giggles rip at will, she is more likely to laugh along with him.
And we all know that laughing and smile incite the brain to produce all kinds of yummy happy chemicals that will have a woman making an instinctive connection between that happy-go-lucky guy and feeling good herself. Super magnetic.
Losing it
We don’t want serious all the time (remember the laughter thing?), but at the same time we don’t a guy who freaks out on a regular basis about life’s stressors. We all deal with issues every day, and we do it with maturity because after all, we’re adults. Losing your cool too much just shows us how immature you really are. We want to date you, not mother you.
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