The advent of internet dating definitely changes first impression circumstances. It’s entirely possible that you’ll be going out on a first date with someone that you’ve been communicating with for weeks or even months.
Then again, many of us haven’t given up on encountering eligible singles in the real world as opposed to the internet dating world. Truthfully, most of us are doing both. And why not?! Let’s face it, we’re all busy and we all want to maximize our dating potential.
The rules for different ways of meeting up romantically can differ. Just because you met person A in location B does that mean you can suggest activity C on the first date? Fortunately, one the the most important things about dating hasn’t changed a bit. And that would be? Making a first impression.
The tactics for making a good first impression have remained pretty much the same. It doesn’t matter if you met at a friend’s party, if you’re finally meeting in person with that cutie who has been emailing you online or if your eyes met over a business lunch.
1. Eye contact supreme
By making direct and lasting eye contact with your new acquaintance you’re sure to communicate not only your confidence and honesty but also your interest. Fleeting glances are fine if you only want to sneak a peak, but locking looks opens the door to further communication.
If all that eye time gets a bit boring try playing little memory games with yourself. Remember the exact color and shape of their eyes and other facial characteristics. You’ll not only convey your interest, but you’re also committing their face to memory.
2. Know when to let go of the reigns
So you’re chatting up some fabulous new person you just ran into and you’re having that old as the hills dilemma of wanting to seem interested without appearing over eager. What to do? Let them set the tone. Wait until they start talking and try to match their energy and excitement level. It’s a great way to make sure you’re not holding the conversation hostage and you can let go of worrying about seeming too detached or too worked up.
3. Almost touching but not quite
This one probably won’t work in a professional setting where a firm handshake at the start and finish of a meeting is all that’s really required. In a more personal setting you can get flirty with someone without actually touching them.
Almost, but not quite, touching someone’s knee or shoulder will suggest a sexual attraction and will leave them wanting more. Women are especially receptive to this because it shows that although you’re interested, you also respect her boundaries.
This post was written by the writers of the Datepad.com internet dating company where you can read hundreds more helpful dating posts.
If you would like to make a comment, please fill out the form below.
