Some pick up lines are boring and rude.
When have you heard some of the cheesiest of pick up lines like the following…
“I lost my number, can I have yours?”
Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.
Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.
And this just isn’t true.
A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.
The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.
PERIOD.
You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.
If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.
You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.
A good pick up line is going to actually do what it says – help you pick up a girl!
When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I’d miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.
“I lost my number, can I have yours?”
All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you’re being clever when you say this, but you’re not.
Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions or telling her she looks like some big celebrity.
Why do you think that is?
Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.
Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.
How do you engage a woman in conversation?
The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren’t afraid to share them! (Particularly when they come to relationships!)
So to give you an example, you could say something like: “Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it’s weird for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman’s perspective on this.”
Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid’s zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.
This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:
1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships
The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.
“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)
“What do you think of children? You seem like the mothering type.”
So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.
This is how you engage a woman in conversation.
Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.
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