NLP and seduction have long been associated with each other. Nero Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a term used to describe the way in which our brains adhere to specific patterns of communication dependent on our personality type. Once we can begin to understand these patterns, triggers and Meta models, we can use them to our advantage whilst communicating with women.
When we cause a woman to align and harmonize with our desires and intentions through the use of effective communication, it is known as seduction.
This is why NLP and seduction can work wonders together. When a man is able to quickly analyze and decode a woman’s communications, he can easily build rapport and establish trust which in turn generates a connection that the seduction can be founded upon.
When people communicate they use a particular type of representational system. There are four types of systems and people primarily communicate through the lens of their personal hierarchy. The four systems are; visual, audio, kinesthetic (touch), and olfactory (smell and taste). By communicating with someone using their representational system a person is able to build rapport much faster.
When a person is using the visual system as their primary method of communication the dialogue they use will incorporate expressions associated with vision. For example; “If you can visualize what I’m saying it just might change your view point. Then you might see what I mean after you get the picture”
With a little practice it can become simple for you to adopt the same representational system in your conversational dynamics as the woman you are flirting with. It gives the woman the impression that you just seem to be able to speak her language.
If a woman’s primary representational system was ‘audio’, you would hear her use terminology like, “It just sounded like a good idea. When I heard it I tuned in straight away. His voice had a soft tone so I had to listen carefully and I’m glad I did”
A kinesthetic representational system sounds like, “I don’t know why he felt so bad because I only just touched on the subject ever so lightly. Obviously he hadn’t warmed up to the idea or it just didn’t feel right for him”
It’s not too often that people use the olfactory system as their preferred hierarchy as it’s more common for people to be either kinaesthitic, visual’s or audio’s. An example of the olfactory system is, “He’s got great taste. I didn’t feel bitter at all when he said he might not be able to make it. But he showed up any way and it was the icing on my cake”
Now that you can understand and identify the different preferred representational systems that women use you’ll be able to easily adopt the same system at will, and increase the quality of your connection with women. A communication breakdown on a very subliminal level can be found in the following example.
If a woman was to say, “That place looks great to me and I can just visualise myself being there someday. It just looks so picturesque, nearly like a painting”, she would be operating from the perspective of a ‘visual’. If the man who was an ‘audio’ responded with, “That idea sounds like sweet music to me. No city noise and just peace and quiet. Just relax and tune out”, he would be missing an opportunity to connect with her at a deeper level.
In the above example the man is in total agreement with the woman, yet to her, it’s as if the man just doesn’t see things her way. At a subconscious level the woman will not feel the same quality of connection that she would’ve if the man had simply responded with, “Indeed, that does look enticing. I could picture myself there too. You should look into it” This simple shift from an ‘audio’ to a ‘visual’ response would allow the woman to feel a deeper connection with the man.
When a man can easily identify the woman’s preferred representational system and is able to utilize the same system, it’s natural for the woman to feel more comfortable around the man. It can become easy with a little practice and it’s always an advantage to have this embedded within your conversational dynamics.
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