I would like to ask you a question.
Do you have a favorite woman, yet despite all your romantic efforts, you remain just friends?
Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.
Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her. And the secret is - flirting isn’t really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn’t work is when it’s done WRONG.
Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.
Mixed signals are what this is. Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.
Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious
Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don’t realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.
And if you haven’t laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.
MISTAKE #2: They Aren’t Obvious Enough!
If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
Although, flirting includes what you say and the way you say it, the most powerful performance comes from your non-verbal body language. The small simple things like raising an eyebrow, tilting your head to one side and that wicked little grin, that carries the most meaning in a seemingly innocent remark.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is fun and light when done properly. When men begin adding serious romantic gestures with flirting, the sexual tension begins to break down.
You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt. We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?
You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can.
Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.
As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.
While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that is building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction. Now the real fun begins.
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