Are you a maid of honor wondering if you should plan a bridal shower for your best friend’s wedding? Wonder no more. In today’s age, if your friend is planning anything other than the simplest wedding then etiquette demands that someone host a wedding shower for her. And in most cases, that someone is the maid of honor. There are a few exceptions: Sometimes another person or family member holds such a special place in the bride’s hear that it’s acceptable for her to hold the shower. Or if circumstances prevent the maid of honor from hosting it, then someone else might fill in for her. Otherwise–You’re it! So as you’re planning the shower,remember that the most important ingredient to have at the party, more than good food and decorations, are the guests. The bride will want to have all of her best friends there. And you, as host, will want to honor them with good quality bridal shower party favors.
So just what sorts of things are we talking about for bridal shower party favors? The ideas are virtually limitless. Some items that are typically offered include candy, key rings, candles, flowers, cookies, gift bags, and more. Basically anything inexpensive that can somehow convey a message reminding guests about the wedding can be turned into wedding shower party favors. That’s the key: Somehow make the gifts remind the guest in years to come about the wedding and couple that they honored. And if possible, try to make these wedding shower party favors also coordinate with the shower theme.
Let’s talk about who exactly the bridal shower party favors are for. Most commonly, they are for everyone. There are some shower hosts who will use the favors solely as prizes for the night’s games and contests. But more commonly, they will give a favor to each guest either as they’re arriving or getting ready to leave. Even more common are those who combine the approaches: They provide some small token to all guests, but hold out a few special prizes to give away during the evening’s games and entertainment.
And by the way, don’t feel like you have to spend a fortune on these favors. The bride understands that you’re not made of money. In most cases, for the average wedding shower, you shouldn’t expect to have to spend more than 50 cents to a few dollars per person. You’ll be surprised at how nice of a wedding favor you can get at that price. You can get something practical and memorable, yet without going broke in the process. Incidentally, some of the best prices are available at online wedding-related stores, so you might want to check there first before you blow your money at a real brick-and-mortar store.
Which brings us to the last point. Where do you find the right ideas for good bridal shower party ideas? And once you’ve got the right idea,where do you pick them up at? There are several sources for ideas for your gifts. The first idea might also be the source for where you buy them? Browse websites. Do a Google search for “wedding shower party favors.” Even the sites that are ridiculously overpriced can at least spur your imagination. Also, ask your married friends and family what they had at their wedding showers. Although you might not want to duplicate any of these ideas exactly, you can use them as a starting point and then provide your own unique twist on them.
As to where to buy them, as we just mentioned, in the 21st century, you’re best resource will be the Internet. They have some of the widest and most affordable selections available. Just remember, as always, shop around and shop wisely.
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