Do not escape from tackling the problem when you are abused. For many couples, the abusing person could hardly control themselves, so it would be better to step out from the relationship. However, if you are determined to stay, you better act to improve the situation.
Don’t be silent. You have to let the abuser know that abusing is not well-accepted by you. The abusers often do not admit they are wrong. Don’t think that you are a trouble-maker, you are just defending yourself from being hurt.
Don’t be weak. You should step out of the relationship if your spouse is a control freak. Don’t let him or her dominate your life. Tolerance should not be unlimited when abused.
If you are continuously being blamed of whatever you do, you are not going to be a confident person. You need to understand that, humans are to err, not everything we do is rational or correct. So even if you have done something wrong, it does not mean that you are not to be respected by your spouse.
If your lover does not like things that you are keen on, for example if your boyfriend does not like your buddies, he or she still should not force you to give up things you like. What you like and what you choose are of your own choice, unless those things are harmful to do, no one should interfere your choices. You should remind him or her that, every coin has two sides, try to appreciate the good points of the things you like, but not just to magnify the bad points he or she dislikes.
Speak to your friends or relatives when you are emotionally abused. Very often people are distorted by abusive and unhealthy relationships. It is always good for you to get advice and comfort. So as to let yourself know clearer of how you should react.
Act promptly to stop the abuse! No one deserves to be controlled and not to be respected. If he or she abuses you, he or she is not a good companion. Don’t stay to be a victim. Don’t hesitate to step out from the relationship when there is no improvement.
If we are not satisfied or feel happy with a relationship, there is again no point to stay. You should get one who loved you, not one that abuses you. lease struggle for your happiness and good future, not to be a victim.
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