Are you looking for Russian women looking for western men? Are you interested in a serious long distance relationship that could potentially lead to the love of your life coming to live with you as a happily married couple? If so, then there are plenty women looking for those exact things online. The problem is learning how to gain their trust so you have a chance of developing a long term relationship.
Why is it this way? You would think that a woman looking for love online would show great interest to any man who gives her attention, right? The problem is that Russian women have to deal with a lot of very big mistakes that western men often make online.
What you ultimately have to break through with many Russian women is a sense of mistrust or suspicion. Not about western men, but about the sincerity of the many men that send them messages every single day. You are dealing with smart, educated women who know just what they want and don’t have to settle for anything less.
In order to do this you have to be familiar with the mistakes other men make so you can avoid them yourself.
Fast Moves: you should never jump right to discussions of marriage, or even a serious committed relationship when you first start conversing with a Russian woman online. Think of it this way: would you take girl you just met on a first date and ask her to marry you? No, so why would you start that kind of talk with a woman online before you really know her?
Take the time to get to know a woman before you start talking about your desire to marry her. She may be thinking about the same thing, but she is not going to willingly go there with you until she has a clear sense of who you are, how you live, and whether she could really fit into that life with you or not.
Slow down and get to know the real woman before jumping into more serious talks or asking for her personal information.
Talking Sexy: you don’t want to start talking about sex right away. Even commenting on the sexual allure of a woman will be a turn off to most if she is not very comfortable talking with you. If you go to sex too soon you will give off the impression that you only want that from her, and that is a definite way to turn her off and get the virtual door slammed in your face. Wait for her to become more comfortable and the sexual issues will come up naturally when it is appropriate and comfortable for you both.
Family Bashing: Russians are extremely devoted to their families. Ask a lot of questions about her family and how she lives, but never say anything negative against them. It is common for Russian women to completely shun a man who her family does not approve of, so tread carefully on the family subjects.
Russian women looking for western men are much like any other woman. They want to be respected, cherished and loved. The difference is they don’t have to settle and are harder to actually catch.
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