When the wife isn’t in the mood to be intimate with her spouse, the man can become increasingly frustrated. He becomes resentful and takes it as a rejection of his love. This can be the source of serious problems in a marriage.
A sexual relationship is viewed very differently by a man and a woman. For men, it is a way of showing his wife that they love her and she loves him in return. Many men feel that this is the only true way to let your spouse know how you feel about each other, however women believe in something completely different.
Women, however, feel like they show their love in various ways, such as cooking him dinner, caring for the house, watching after the children or buying him special presents for no reason. To women, intimacy comes in many forms from snuggling on the coach to walking hand in hand along the beach. It is not always the act of sexual intercourse that shows love for women, sometimes all she may need is a hug.
For the most part, women are not aware that men use intercourse as a way to measure their love. Men feel that it is not enough to just let their wife know, verbally, how much they love them. The man feels that it needs to be shown as well, as this is the only way they can think of to show their wife what she really means to him. When a man feels rejected by his spouse it is important he expresses theses feelings to his wife, so that she can gain a greater understanding on home much he relies on intercourse as a means of love and intimacy.
When the woman declines to have sex with the man, she is simply declining because she isn’t in the mood, and for her it likely has little to do with love. Women really don’t have a clue of the ramifications this causes. The man should always let her know how it makes him feel. This will contribute to a stronger relationship and marriage.
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