There was a fight.
Maybe you lied to your boyfriend.
Maybe you had a knock-down, drag-out, no-holds-barred, cage fight.
Maybe you cheated on him. Maybe he cheated on you.
Why he’s gone doesn’t matter. All that matters is you want him back… in your arms… FAST!
But can you get him back?
Men’s egos are pretty delicate.
Can you win him back?
Definitely! Follow these 4 steps.
Check Your Ego At The Door
If you really want your boyfriend back, forget all about your precious ego.
Men are a lot like little boys.
Make him look small–like you don’t care what he thinks–and he’s gone… forever.
A lot of women disregard this rule.
They laugh at his hurt pride.
Tell him he’s being hysterical. He’s stupid to take offense. He’s just like a big baby.
They laugh and mock and ridicule… and protect their own precious egos.
What does that get them? Not much. They rarely win their boyfriends back.
They don’t treat him with respect… add value to his life… so what self-respecting man would ever go back to that situation.
And what self-respecting woman could ever be attracted to a loser who’d take that abuse?
If you really want him back… you’ll need to work at it… do some things that feel uncomfortable… because that’s the sort of commitment you need to get an ex boyfriend back… especially if you hurt his pride.
Apologize
Next, tell him you’re sorry.
Even if you believe you didn’t do anything wrong… just do it.
Apologize. That calms a tense situation, and repairs his injured pride.
Some women won’t do that.
They refuse to compromise.
They’re more likely to empty his septic tank with a teaspoon than say they were wrong.
Those women protect their precious pride… but pride doesn’t keep them warm on a lonely, winter night.
Which do you think is more important? Your pride… or your boyfriend?
If he’s more important… then dump your pride… and apologize. The clock’s ticking.
Forgive
Often you need to forgive and forget things he did.
In the heat of a relationship battle, we all say and do terrible things we don’t really mean.
And if we keep remembering those awful words, the relationship has no chance.
So, if you’re smart, you’ll forgive him, and forget all those hurtful things that happened in the bad old days.
Forget the past. It’s over. Don’t let it screw up your future. You’re gonna have to work hard at getting your ex boyfriend back… and it’ll be tough. But if you can’t or won’t let go of the hurtful things that happened in the angry days, you’ve got no shot.
Expect Some Rejection
Winning back your ex boyfriend is often tough… and usually indirect.
Often you take one step forward, then two steps back.
That’s OK. That’s perfectly normal. Some men take time to get over hurt feelings.
So accept that as part of the recovery process.
Don’t worry. Just make him feel special… make him feel fantastic whenever he’s with you… and he’ll soon be back in your arms… where he belongs.
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