Both Civil and Church weddings can be beautiful and meaningful occasions, so what are the most important things to keep in mind when choosing your type of venue?
Church of England Wedding – This is a very common option for couples in the UK. Images spring to mind of the classic white wedding, complete with [church bells|bells ringing], ladies in hats, the bride in a beautiful white [gown|dress] and the groom in [full morning dress|top hat and tails]. Marrying in church is not dependant on your beliefs, baptism or even whether you attend or not. However, if you are divorced you may need to discuss the options with the vicar.
English law now permits you to get married in even more churches. However, you should look for one that you have at least some connection to. This could be obvious, such as you regularly attend, but in some cases you only need to attend for 6 months before the wedding. Alternatively, you can marry in a church if you currently, or have lived, in the parish or if you have a family connection to the church. More information can be found on the Church of England website www.yourchurchwedding.org
Civil weddings are currently the most popular choice of UK couples as they give freedom of choice to personalise your ceremony and offer greater flexibility. The ceremony can be tailored to incorporate a variety of vows, music and personal readings (all non religious). Your ceremony can also be held at your reception venue which reduces stress on time and makes planning and organisation easier (and cheaper!)
There is great flexibility in choosing your venue, from hotels and castles to zoos and botanical gardens, and even a number of gazebos and bandstands!
Choose where you would like to marry and check availability with the local superintendent registrar. You will need to give 15 days notice and produce proof of identity and address. If you are re-marrying you will need to provide final divorce papers or a death certificate. The law is currently awaiting review to allow weddings to take place outside of an approved venue or structure, e.g. under the cherry tree in your garden or at your favourite beauty spot so watch this space
To find a register office visit http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/marriages/where-can-i-marry/finding–your–local–register–office.asp and to find an approved licensed venue, visit http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/marriages/where-can-i-marry/finding–an–approved–venue.asp
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