In order to get your ex back within hours, you’ll need to comprehend some basic but very powerful emotional logic, which is that emotions change on their own. You know this. You’ve gotten angry and gotten over it within hours or days, haven’t you?
So understand that feelings will change. That is the way emotions work. Even your ex’s emotions. But strong emotions don’t change quickly. So your ex may seem stuck on negative feelings about you to this point.
The secret to getting your ex back within hours is to understand that you can help other peoples feelings to change. You can! And specifically, you can often help your ex to change their feelings towards you. There are certain things you can do to make this happen.
What you do depends on why you broke up, as there are different immediate reconnect strategies for different situations. But let’s say you wronged your mate by cheating on them.
In this case, your ex is angry, or hurt, or ashamed, or feeling betrayed. These are powerful emotions. And the stronger the emotion, the longer it will stick around. The feeling of betrayal can stick around for years!
The key to getting your ex back in hours or days instead of months is to actually help your ex to release the negative emotions they are feeling towards you. These bad feelings are filling their heart, blocking their love towards you. They must be released before you ex can even think about making up with you.
How you do this is that you help them to get those negative feelings off their chest. And how you do that is by getting them to talk, to tell you how bad they feel about what you did.
Most people want to apologize endlessly after wronging their mate. But a more powerful thing to do is to get your ex to talk. Get them to vent. Don’t argue, don’t defend yourself, just make them feel heard and understood. This can get you a lot further than saying I’m sorry a thousand times.
Most people want to apologize endlessly after wronging their mate. But a more powerful thing to do is to get your ex to talk. Get them to vent. Dont argue, dont defend yourself, just make them feel heard and understood. This can get you a lot further than saying Im sorry a thousand times.
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