If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it’s okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. Are you asking yourself “does my ex want to get back with me?”
Whether or not your ex is into you again, you have to play your cards right. You should not rush out like a love sick puppy and act like a fool. What you should do at first is play hard to get. This is the best way to get your ex to respond the way you want to. Do this in moderation and you will have a greater chance to succeed. The truth is, your ex is showing interest in you again probably because you are playing hard to get in the first place.
During a fresh break up it is just natural if you are missing your ex. I know that you still have a room in your heart for your ex. Your ex still misses you as well. The lingering feeling of love is still there especially if you were in the relationship for years. Just think of all the good experiences and memories you had together. There are happiness and there are regrets in the memories. This is why you need to make sure of your ex’s feelings.
Let me caution you that sometimes when an ex shows an interest it may just be a little game for them. They may be out for revenge when they perceive a wrong that you have done to them. You have to check your ex for sincerity and integrity before you jump in blind to his or her signal. That is why playing hard to get at first is the solution to know if your ex is sincere. Study the situation carefully before you do anything that can hurt you or your chances.
So take it slowly but surely. Even if you are wondering if your ex is still interested in you. Don’t jump the gun. Be conservative in your estimates this time. Play hard to get in moderation and see that this will work wonders for you.
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