You will need to move quickly if you’ve dumped your girlfriend and you want to get her back. But too much haste can cause you to make mistakes that most guys usually make when they’re in a rush to win back their ex.
You may be tempted to get her a lot of expensive gifts to get her attention and to prove your love for her. It is easy to understand why you would want to do this. But that probably won’t work because it’s pretty old hat.
Instead, something more innovative and honest will be required to get your girl to come back. She may want you back desperately but she will probably make you jump through some hoops first.
Being dumped hurts a lot so it is easy to understand why she feels this way. There’s a very good chance that she will want to get even for hurting her feelings and her pride. If you truly want her back then be prepared to put up with what ever she throws at you.
She will likely demand that you give her an explanation for your dumping her. So spend some time getting it straight in your head and be very sincere when you talk to her about it. If she demands that you apologize and promise that you won’t do it again, then you had best do it.
Perhaps you became panicky because the relationship was deepening and getting too serious too quickly. It’s not unusual for guys to panic when they are feeling smothered and overwhelmed in a relationship.
Rather than talking with their girlfriends, they panic. And in an instant, they’ve dumped their girlfriend and regret it.
So perhaps this should be your explanation to your ex girlfriend. Just be careful not to allow her to exploit this situation and turn you into her doormat.
Remember that an apologetic and understanding guy is not the same thing as a doormat. If the two of you still have feelings for each other, you will probably get her back. Just be sure that you want her back for the right reason: you love her.
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