If you are still clinging to the idea about getting your ex back, then you should pass the break up tests he will throw at you. Always remember that in any relationship, it should be a partnership not a single man show. Just like in instances where one does all the taking and the other does all the giving, then it is not pleasant at all.
In the event when the relationship is over, the ex who does all the taking will do some break up tests to discover if he still has an effect on you. Passing this breakup test is very important in order to create a harmonious and happy relationship.
What are these breakup tests and what is the best way to pass them?
The Beck and Call Test
A situation where you are always ready when your ex needs you. This does not mean you have to be there do little things for her/him right away even if it means jeopardizing a very important thing you need to do.
It is good when the situation permits you to get closer with him. But if not, then you have to teach your ex to start doing things without you. He will never learn if you are just always there for him/her.
The First Ring Enthusiasm
You have been praying that your ex will call. On anything, never pick up the phone as it rings… Let the phone ring a couple of times – this will give your ex the impression that you have a life beyond him. Yes, you are not totally over with your ex but that does not mean that you won’t move on. Answering upon the phone rings test is your ex’s way of knowing is he is still important to you or not.
The Two-Minute Text Reply Enthusiasm
This text back in two minutes test is the strategy usually applied on break ups to determine the level of interest and desire to appease your ex. Replying back in just two minutes after you received his/her message will not make you look good. How about taking a little time before you respond this time? It is not always nice to be there right away when he needs you. A good relationship should be a shared responsibility; being there for one another. There are boundaries that should be identified while you are not together. If not, things won’t work out between you and your ex if ever you get back together.
Passing this break up test is very useful for you and your ex. This will help you determine the kind of relationship you want and be able to maintain your individuality as person that deserves to be respected.
These are both important first steps for both of you when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. Want step by step instructions on passing these and other tests in a relationship? Watch these great videos and put them to work for you: http://www.makeyourexwantyouback.com.
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