The moment has come. Silence fills the air. The Man of God speaks softly, calling the Bride and Groom by name. He asks them a question, and they answer “I do”. The he tells them to repeat after him the Christian Nuptial Vows. Finally, when all is done; the Man of God declares the Bride and Groom to be Husband and Wife.
Representing both government and church, the officiating minister guides the couple through the recitation of their Christian Nuptial Vows. Why are they called Christian Special Event Vows? Is it partly because a Minister officiates them?
Commitments are statements of promise or pledge. Essentially they are commitments from Groom to Bride and Bride to Groom. They define what each brings and offers to the other. Partly because a Minister officiates, they are called Christian Nuptial Vows. It is not quite that simple, however.
The history behind Christian Nuptial Promises is quite interesting. A quick glance at American History reveals the dominance of the Church of England or Episcopal Church as it came to be known. The structure and format of Christian Special Event Promises can be traced back to these religious traditions regardless of their contemporary variations.
You may attend a Methodist or Baptist or even a Pentecostal church, but when it comes to your promises made during your Nuptial ceremony; they are all classified as Christian Special Event Promises and derive from the same original church roots. You may find variations, but they can still be Christian WeddingVows.
Christian Wedding Promises affirm the Biblical values, priorities, and views of the marriage relationship including the roles of husband and wife. Some Christian Nuptial Promises do so very briefly, while others may expand on these principles in the vows, pledges, or Nuptial sermon or combination thereof.
When we retrace the Biblical record and teachings concerning marriage, we find some very definitive view of what marriage should be. For example, in Genesis the first book of the Bible, God makes Adam – the first man. He commissions Adam to have dominion over creation, to name the animals, and later to work the ground to provide sustenance. He is also instructed to lead and protect his wife Eve.
Protector, provider, and leader are the three most common words used to describe this appropriate role for the husband. He pledges to sacrifice his own interests in order to fulfill his responsibilities and obligations as a husband.
From the side of man comes woman, a divine gift to man as a companion and helpmate. Her specialized role is as the giver of life and the nurturer of family, but in all other cases she is to be considered a mutual partner in the mission of the family. In the Christian Special Event Vows, she pledges to respect her husband, give herself freely to meet her husband’s needs, and to surrender her desires and needs for the benefit of the marriage and family.
Today there are many variations of Christian WeddingVows, but the elements that make them Christian Wedding Promises include officiating by an ordained minister or priest; reflecting the traditions of the church; and affirming the basic Biblical relationships of husband and wife.
Today, you can find great variety in Christian Nuptial Vows; and you can embellish or write your own following the basic principles that make your promises Christian WeddingVows.
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