Do you ever wonder what girls are thinking when you approach them?
More often than not, guys believe that the girls they approach are going to try and catch them pulling a pick up routine.
They believe the girl is thinking about all the different ways she can reject them before they even open their mouths.
So they try to HIDE their true intentions.
They try to come off as a guy who just “wants to be their friend.”
But little do they know they are doing more harm than good.
See, if a girl is even half-way decent looking, chances are she’s used to being approached by guys looking to date her.
So a girl KNOWS what you want if you’re bothering to approach her.
She’s thinking:
“Oh, this guy must be interested in me.”
By then, she’s is down to two choices…
First, she can just reject him for whatever reason she has.
The second is to play along and see where it goes because she IS interested.
What most guys try to do is bypass the option where she could reject them because they don’t want to go through that pain.
So they try to “weasel” their way into her life by acting COMPLETELY disinterested in her romantically.
At that point, the girl starts to think:
“Okay, I guess he’s not into me. But he’s cool, he’ll make a good friend.”
But once the guy tries to make his move on her, she’ll reject him, because he’s already been pegged into the “friend” category.
Why?
Because he removed himself as a potential LOVER early on! That’s why!
See, by trying to bypass the possibility of rejection, what most guys are really doing is setting up a long, drawn-out, painful experience.
They’ll get to know her, and become attracted to her. It will deepen, but she’ll never reciprocate the feelings, as she just doesn’t feel that way.
IF she just rejects you, then good! It might sting, like a shot at the doctor, but at least you won’t waste your time. And even more, drag yourself through the emotional turmoil.
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