A lot of couples are resisting the traditions of how a wedding “must “be organized. Whether it is wedding day ceremony bride’s dresses, photographer’s, the florist or florist, the special matrimonial cake, or even the invitations arrangements there seem to be no end of discussion and even discord. And that is even before individual and family egos and reputations have entered into the mix and the mold. Departed are the days that veils are obligatory and garters had to be tossed. Couples know what they like and design weddings to their own tastes and options, often having to merge traditions with different practices. This personalized approach also applies to planning the outrageous “wedding budget. Many of the engaged couples pay for the wedding themselves. Traditionally the couple’s respective families give out money to cover particular expense .While every situation is different, what stays the same is that the budget defines the restricting factors and circumstance of a wedding, from venue to party menu. As a result the budget or the allocated money for the event should be determined and considered first in the wedding planning process.
Here is the list of your possible wedding expense: Invitations: invitations are the very first thing people see of the wedding. It sets the expectations and theme of the event and gives your guests a total glimpse of what is to come.
Bride and Family Pay for: Invites, wedding programs, thank-you cards, etc, the groom’s wedding band. The wedding venue, organist, etc. The bridal gown, veil, shoes and accessories Flowers at the wedding venue and gathering, plus all bridesmaids’ bunch and corsages. All the wedding pictures and video All reception staples, drink, adornments and music Transportation of the entire bridal entourage to and from the ceremony and reception.
Caterer: Buffet dinners are a lot more costly because of the need to make food more available to make the trays look more pleasant. Sit-down dinners are more preferred and are most economical. Set portions and pre-plated plates are served to the guest. Music: Hiring a DJ instead of live bands will help you cut down on your budget. Photographer: Seek a professional photographer for the ceremony and reception. The photographs are your most treasured keepsake of the event; it serves as a permanent memory to revisit your special day for the years to come. Professional photographers have the time, equipment and experience to deliver your grandest and memorable shots.
In the end it can be said that you wedding day is that of your new family unit. Your spouse and yourself and no one else. Resist outside pressures. Interestingly enough it is seldom the in laws who can be the harbingers of the greatest influence and even “pressure tactics”. Interestingly enough it is oft well meaning friends of the bride’s mother who extract the greatest toll. Each may be living or reliving their marriage days of yore – real or imagined. Remember that in the end the day belongs to you and your spouse and your future memories and plans. Your wedding day, the banquet, reception ET all are “Your Parade”, “Your Day in the Sun”. Enjoy yourselves.
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