Ever wonder how some guys have this almost magic ability to attract women like a magnet? Perhaps they’re handsome or it’s their body size and build.
Physical attractiveness helps but it’s not the only factor or even the most important factor. The greatest single ingredient to success with women is how you think and behave.
Your two biggest obstacles are:
1.) Being passive – If you don’t have a love life don’t expect any help from fate. If you believe that a perfect woman for you is out there and that she’ll be delivered to you by fate is just romantic nonsense.
Change cannot happen by doing absolutely nothing about your situation. If your love life is in hibernation mode you’ll have to take action and do something. You’ll be required to apply a good deal of energy and effort.
This passiveness could be a part of your personality. Or you may have believe incorrectly that things will ultimately work out for the best in the end. But when you make a habit of actively solving your problems, your life will improve greatly.
2.) Lack of confidence – A lack of confidence works against you in 2 ways. First, it will be too difficult to approach women. If you manage that, you may become paralyzed. You won’t recover very well from the many rejections that are a part of dating.
Second, women love a man with confidence. Confidence is the most essential and indispensable component to being attractive. Without it, you can only hope for women who don’t mind your shyness.
Sometimes this can happen if you possess an exceptional talent, quality, or strength. But the odds of this happening are very much against you.
Confidence is a skill that is gained over time if you consistently work at it. However you’ll need to take action and just do it. You must not think of attracting a woman as something to do or die for. Take it easy on yourself and just treat it as an exercise where you hone your skill with each attempt.
Overcoming the limitations of passivity and lack of confidence may be all that you need. But you’ll never know until you’ve tried.
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