Anyone can learn how to pick up women. Sometimes people think the only place to find a woman to date is at a party, but this is not true. Pay close attention and you will notice that women are everywhere. Using this tried and true practice: flirt with every woman you can, even women you are not interested in and soon you will be a pro.
The first thing to do when you see an attractive woman is to make eye contact. This does not mean you stare like a psycho, use the 3 second rule. This means that you should be talking to the woman you find attractive 3 seconds after you notice her. Don’t know what to say? Try a neutral-opinion opener. Try asking a question that is not directed at you or her. Actually, what you say is not important. The way you say it is what a woman notices. She will be interested in a man who has confidence.
Do you best to keep the conversation flowing at a natural, relaxed rate. This is not an interview. Try to think of some stories that share something interesting about yourself. Use humor, it relaxes everyone and makes you more human. It isn’t easy to be funny when you are nervous, but you can learn how to do this. Don’t pretend to know more about a subject than you really do and don’t have a one topic conversation. Try to avoid religion, politics or any other controversial topic. If the conversation has a down time, this is okay and perfectly natural.
If you feel comfortable, ask her for her number. If you aren’t comfortable doing this, try to find out where she might be hanging out in the next few days. Then you could ‘accidentally’ meet here there.
If she does not want to give out her number, don’t give up. You can always try to create a friendship, another friend never hurt anyone. After you have some time to develop a friendship, you never know what might happen, she could even end up asking you out.
Don’t look desperate or too eager, she will sense this. The best way to act is cool, casual and collected. Pretend you are a famous rock star or actor and act like you think he would in the same situation.
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