When it comes to texting, there are rules to obey like any other fun game.
Rule 1: Never text to dodge a real conversation
Many guys see texting as a safer arena for contacting woman than calling them. This is understandable, but unacceptable. If you’ve just met and number closed a woman, then your next goal is to get a date. The likelihood that you will set this up with her via text message is lower than if you call her and build more familiarity verbally.
If you text because you’re scared to talk to her, how will you ever speak to her in person?
Rule 2: Do not seek responses for validation.
Remove value seeking texts like, “What up?” or “What are your plans this afternoon?” Texts like this scream neediness, make you less attractive to women, and do not help spotlight your fun characteristics.
Here are some sample texts sent that have been proven to be much more effective…
“I just saw a woman jogging with a purple fanny pack and she reminded me of you”
“Hi dork, I bet you’re operating at 100% dorkiness today 
”
Rule 3: Abstain from over texting
She might be the only thing on your mind at the moment but let’s keep that a secret between us, otherwise you may freak her out. Text once and only once until you get a reply, then you may text back. If she doesn’t respond to your text, you should generally hold off until tomorrow before contacting her again.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Secret Texting Tip: Use texting to familiarize your number in her phone
Right after you get her number, send a text while you’re standing next to her. It is funny in itself and double points if you send a funny message or inside joke. Give these a whirl…
“You have my number now but you are only allowed to call me once per day.”
“Wow! That guy you’re standing next to you is hot!”
Once she saves your number, you can be confident she is interested. But even more important, when you call later, she will have your number and caller id appear. There is even more chance for her to pick up the phone to a recognized number.
If you would like to make a comment, please fill out the form below.
