Dont get trapped into the friend zone! Heres one way to be sure you are not a candidate for just a friend status. You have to have some sort of physical contact or touching when talking to a girl. By having some physical contact between the two of you you are establishing a sense of mutual tactility with each other. This may be a problem for some guys, how to assimilate the touching/physical contact smoothly without creeping out a girl? Use physical contact and touching to help you when you want to know how to approach a girl.
One thing to remember is to not be too aggressive with a woman upon first introducing yourself. You dont want to scare her away. This is not the correct approach. Doing so is counter-productive. Do not be overly aggressive in the beginning because youll just put in place an uncomfortable setting for you and the woman you are interested in.
So now you know you can be too overly aggressive, but you must also know that you can also be too timid. If you dont show any physical contact to your date you may as well punch your ticket to the friend zone! This is not the best approach either as it may come off you are simply not interested.
Let’s figure out how you can gain the balance between not coming off as creepy but yet still show that you are interested in her.
When you first introduce yourself, form a physical bond quickly by shaking her hand.
One area in particular is a good start for physical contact. Touch her on the outside of her arm shows that you are very personable. Do so however, in a smooth and appropriate manner.
The key here is to build a bond with a woman.
Remember to be natural, do it in a manner so as to seem as natural as possible. For example, if she wants to go to the bathroom, direct her and help her get through the crowd by making sure shes holding on to your hand or your shoulders. This allows her to get to where she needs to go and you get the physical contact you want.
Giving a kiss on the cheek and a hug is a great way to leave a NON-friend zoneish lasting impression.
It is worth your while to build this bond and rapport with a woman as she’ll want to hang out with you again and not in just a friend way. Learn this technique and in no time you’ll be double your dating.
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