When you first meet a woman your goal is simple. You want to rise above all of the other men she meets every day. Rather than appear boring or average, you want to stand out in a memorable way. Most guys do it wrong by trying to wear something over-the-top or try to talk about strange subjects they think women would be intrigued by. This usually backfires on him.
But the truth is that standing out is not about putting on leather pants and doing magic tricks for women. These are the methods of pickup artists who don’t know what they are doing and will only make you seem foolish. Here is what you need to express to a woman when you first meet her.
1. Have a passion you are pursuing
I truly believe a passion that you are working towards is much more attractive to women than your wallet, your looks or anything else. Of course some women care about your wallet but they are not the women you want to be focusing on anyway. Ambition is the key ingredient here. Having a true purpose in this life is very attractive. Women actually want you to have something more important than them in your life. A man who chooses a woman over his purpose or mission is not respected by any woman.
Be able to talk about these things openly and with enthusiasm. You should never be ashamed for something you are passionate about, regardless of how much you think a woman won’t dig it. Talk as if you assume everyone around you is as interested in it as you are. Die hard convictions in people are very hard to not respect. If you make excuses for your interests then that shows her you are value-seeking. Remember Value-Seeking is an attraction destroyer. Somewhere within the reason you are passionate about something is exactly what is going to bring a sexy, amazing woman into your life. Think about it.
Bruce teaches men from all ages and walks of life how to successfully meet and date women. Be sure to sign up for his free crash-course attraction video or check out the Real World Attraction blog for more information.
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