Picking up women may be a problem for some. If you are in the same situation, you may just be lacking in effort. One thing you can do is have the guts and determination to succeed.
What can one do to get those guts? Why is this so important? With guts, you will increase your chances of success with women.
There is that rule one should follow when approaching a woman: always make eye to eye contact first before approaching her. She will appreciate it more since you are being more polite and have made sure she is always comfortable when you approach her.
Look at her eyes when you talk with her. Make sure you also break the gaze from time to time. If you don’t, she might feel uncomfortable and may decide that you are too aggressive for her own good.
A very good way to start a conversation with a girl you are interested in, is by giving a sincere smile and saying “Hi!”–this will surely get her attracted to you. Being a little bit flirty with your gaze will surely get some sparks going on.
When you ask her questions: ask her things that make her expound more about the things you want to know about her. Get her to talk more. Don’t settle for a simple “yes” or “no”–such questions will do you no good.
So when you actually ask–ask about what a perfect life is for her and ask her why. Give her every time to be able to explain her point of view. You should really allow her to tell her piece, otherwise you will miss out on some important information.
Lastly, touching can be an effective tool if used appropriately in the right situation and at the right time. After establishing some degree of connection with her, you can use some strategically employed touches, to heighten her senses and to see how the she would respond.
One approach in employing the sense of touch is by pointing at her bracelet. You then hold her hand to look at it closely while saying you find the bracelet beautiful. This will be subtle and she will not take your approach to be overly aggressive.
These are a few simple ideas, but can be effectively used as a guide to picking up women. If you employ these correctly, I guarantee you that youll be off to a good start.
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