A common misconception about clubs is that it is a place where sexually active women are easily obtained. This is a fallacy. They can however be viewed as “”Training Camps”" where you can practice ways of engaging and picking up attractive women. Of course, there are various other places, such as parks, beaches, and stores, where encounters with girls are easier to be had. You will no doubt find that many women are more at ease, and easier to approach in such places. Looking at clubs as “”Training Camps”" assumes that the going is much harder than in these less obvious venues.
When a woman enters a club, she is ready mentally for what may go down. She understands that she may be approached by bunches of men and she knows how to turn away those who do not make a good first impression. Essentially, women in a club situation are on their guard from the minute they walk in the door. Given that, it is not such a good idea to make an outright attempt to pick them up. What the club environment IS good for, is learning what works when it comes to taking a woman home for the night.
When you walk into the club, you are met with darkness, smoke, and a high volume of noise. Naturally, this is not the ideal environment in which to carry on a conversation. It becomes necessary to lean forward into a woman’s face to engage her in friendly conversation. This can work to your advantage in maintaining your stealth even after an initial rejection. Most clubbers are oblivious to what is going on around them in the club. So you have a way to deal with any rejection and stay in the game.
Fortunately, it is highly unlikely that you will encounter the girl who turned you down last week at this same club. You need not be concerned about an obvious snub affecting your opportunities to engage a new clubber. One thing is for sure, any frequent clubber chick is going to be totally aware of your status among the other women in the club. When she sees you rejected, she will take the cue to do the exact same thing if you try to break into her intimate circle. Don’t blame her for trying to keep up her competitive status.
Look, my man, you are going to get into all kinds of crap when you use the club to train for your “bluebeard” role. And that ain’t bad. All those turn downs from all those club chicks are going to toughen you up for action in the field (the community college, the city park, the local Kroger). If you can score in the club, well, hey, you are good to go out in the less challenging 20′s. Oh, another tip for ya: get some help with your talking points by hitting the Internet sites trying to clue you on “conversing”.
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