Wouldn’t it be great to meet the perfect guy, get swept head over heels, go through a romantic fairytale, marry and bring up adorable children? Unfortunately, this can turn out just to be a pipe dream on many occasions. If you are “on the market” you are obviously looking for the best, have great standards and have a picture in your mind of the ideal guy.
How can you tell if a guy is not interested in you? You may well have come across somebody who you are particularly keen on and you have been out on a date of two and like what you see. It is usual to become a little confused at this stage as it is often difficult to really know what is happening.
If there is one thing that all girls can agree on, it is that guys are very difficult to read. They seem to never show their feelings and when it comes to expressing their emotions they are even more recalcitrant. Girls are interested in long-term relationships and need to know where they stand. If a guy is not interested, we want to move on.
If you really want to know whether that hunky guy is not interested in you, be bold and take the initiative. After a day or so without a call, pick up the phone and call him. Leave a nice message if you get through to the voicemail. Now, if you do not hear within a reasonable period of time, you have your answer.
If days at a time go by without your potential dream guy calling you, then you have to understand that this guy is not interested in you. There are a lot of men out there, so don’t beat about the bush. You should know that many guys will shy away from actually having to tell you in person as they hate confrontation. This is why they will not call you to break it off.
If your love interest hangs around a lot with other woman, it could be a way of telling you that the guy is not interested. He may well refer to his other contacts as just “friends”, but you should read between the lines and see what’s happening.
If you only hear from your love interest very late at night, around the time that the bars close, or when he’s looking for action, you should quickly conclude that this guy is not interested in anything other than sex. Don’t degrade yourself, and look for somebody who has a more mature approach to relationships.
You need to come up with a series of rules when you play in the world of dating and relationships. If you are really not sure, or you think that the guy is not interested, take the initiative and move on to your next adventure.
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