A lot of romance advice ask you to do things that can be rather gimmicky. While this is a valid approach, another way to be more romantic relies less on planned external activities and more on improving how you interact with your partner. This improvement or enhancement is often called charm.
If you’re the no nonsense type of guy and you suddenly dazzle your partner with a lot of charm, your love life will get a tremendous boost. Nothing is more powerful than contrast when it comes to getting the attention of your woman. She’ll be very much turned on and intrigued by this seemingly new side of your personality.
If you aren’t blessed with the gift of charm, there’s still hope because it’s something that can be learned. Three tips:
1.) Pay attention to what makes her smile or laugh.
If you have been with your partner for a while and already know her well, there will always be subtle things that you should look for. There could also be things happening on a day to day basis that makes her feel good.
Focus in on these things whenever they happen. If you do or say something that makes her happy, keep doing it.
Take note of these things for more use in the future. Remembering is important because it will flatter her immensely when even the smallest things about her don’t escape you.
2.) Have a good sense of humor.
Another way to make her laugh and smile is saying humorous things. You don’t have to act like a clown, just look for the lighter side of life. Being playfully silly can work very well.
Be mindful of her self doubts or insecurities. Because humor is a quick and spontaneous thing, you don’t have much time for reflection on appropriateness.
3.) Show exuberance toward living your life.
Always find the good in people and the world around you. Enjoy every occasion. Put your whole heart into the things that you do.
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