Jeez! That was a train wreck only you could have caused. Also, she’s already hitched again. I guess she shut the door on your face. This is the end of that run; but you can’t stop thinking of her! Be a man, reclaim your chick!
Calm down. This is just a stand-in relationship; most flings of this kind are bound to fail. She still wants you but caught the first hook that swam by her; obviously, she’ll be tossed back in the sea again. She’s probably playing the jealousy card to catch your interest; you have hope.
Don’t be sap—getting after her and hounding her is the very worst thing you can do. It’s not what she wants in a man, or anyone else. If you give her space, she’ll love you for it, and she’ll have time to gather her feelings and thoughts. This will also be a time for you to wait and figure out how you’re going to win her back.
Did you (or she) have problems with the relationship, and what were they? How will you alter your persona to show her you can carry a relationship? How will carry out the relationship differently, to show her you’ve changed? This—and more– is what you need to have in mind while you trudge along the path to win back your woman!
The world hasn’t ended! Yeah, she was a big part of your life and you want the relationship back, but if you realize there’s more to the world than just her and start to enjoy your surroundings, she’ll sit up and take notice. She will see how well you can function without you, and wish she could be as successful. She will want to know why you are so different.
Of course, you still wish she was with you again. However, you need to make sure that you take some time to start creating a new life plan that doesn’t include her. She will be awed by the change in you and want to know more. She will be perplexed about you, and especially how things have turned out so well for you!
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