Obtaining dates and repeatedly making a good impression will get guys the benefit of being able to find “the one” much easier. But getting into the dating scene at the first try will more than likely result in failure, and experience is the name of the game. With a few tips, there is much more chance that failure won’t be prevalent.
Initiating conversation is how the spark starts, as this shows the guy is genuinely interested in what a woman has to say. Asking a woman of her past or what she plans to do in the future are always good topics, but do try avoid past relationship stories or any clues that a past might not have been very positive. To help speed conversation along, consider taking a date to a friends house for a small party or going out on a group date so there is no absense in conversation.
Women can sometimes be very particular about how they feel about discussing a relationship with a man. It’s usually best to not discuss what the man wants from the relationship unless asked. A woman will be “turned off” by a man who demands an answer to whether or not the woman likes him. It may seem clingy, strange, and alienate the date from the guy who might have had good intentions in mind.
A boring man is the worst date for a woman, so emphasis should be put on seeming friendly and outgoing. Friends usually help out in this situation. If you have a good amount of friends, flaunt them to prove that you are well liked and fun to be around. If you are lacking in the friends category, try doing something spontaneous and exciting such as rock climbin or going to a concert.
Sometimes it isn’t what a guy does well, but what he doesn’t do that is annoying to a woman. Try not to appear too self-centered or self-conscious. Women don’t often seek long-term relationships with someone who is more interested in talking about their own self rather than other things. Even when a guy has to talk about himself, he may relate the experience with something a woman has said to prove he was listening, or even ask for her input on the story.
The best relationship advice is going to come from yourself- through experience with different personalities women hold. Dating a new woman is almost like rewriting the entire book of rules, so get out there and offer a fun date to anyone who is willing. After a few dates, guys should start to feel more confident in saying the right things and pleasing a woman’s expectations.
Final Thoughts
The first few dates are often the most tough, so consider buying a book or two on dating tips. Also talking to friends and family who have had successful relationships and have good advice to give. And of course, get out there and start dating to start creating your own tips on dating women!
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