Most men want to know how to kiss a girl. You need to ensure that the girl wants to get romantic with you before you initiate that first kiss.
There are few tests you can use to find out if she is ready to establish a romantic and sexual relationship with you. Use the following as tests to find out is she is ready to be kissed:
1. Gently stroke the hair of this girl and see how she responds.|
2. Hold her hands and gently squeeze them.
3. Make an eye contact and slowly brush her arm.
If she responds positively to two of the three then she is ready to be kissed.
Don’t worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn’t brush your arm. She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk away from you.
Once you have tested that she is ok to be kissed. Step slowly towards her or pull her close and lean forward. Now kiss her on the lips. It is a good idea to start with a peck on her lips and follow it up with a long kiss if she does not object.
You do not have to pull back and return for the longer kiss. You can stay in the kiss position after the peck and go back for a longer kiss if she does not pull back. Though you can always pull back and return again for the kiss.
It is possible that girl may pull back when you go for the kiss. This does not necessarily mean that she does not like you or don’t want you to kiss.
She might have pulled back because she was not expecting a kiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect a kiss at that moment.
If you have performed the above three tests, chances are that the girl will not pull back when you go for the kiss.
The girl will vocalize her objection or walk away from you if she did not want to be kissed by you. If she does neither of them she probably is looking forward to another kiss.
Test it again by looking in her eyes, stroking her hair and brushing her arms. If she missed these signals the first time, she surely will notice them this time.
If she still does not object to most of the tests than you can definitely go for the kiss again. You will be able to kiss her this time because she will be prepared and expecting it now.
Few additional tips:
. Make sure to use some breath fresheners or mint before you kiss the girl.
. Don’t freak the girl out by saying I love you right after the kiss. It is too soon to say those words.
. Shave if you plan to go for a kiss.
. Kiss her in private when you kiss the first time.
. Don’t get upset if she rejects you. Don’t try to convince her or argue with her.
. Make your first kiss more romantic by playing with her hair or holding her face when you kiss her. You could also hold her on the waist or hold her hands when kissing. Whispering in the girls ear between kisses does magic for women.
. It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night.
. Continue your conversation or activity after the kiss. You do not want to make things awkward after the kiss.
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