People have taken to online dating like ducks take to water because it works or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that they have been chatting with online.
All they have heard about are the frightening things that can happen and, I must say that they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what is a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.
You have to|must| be patient above all else. press her for personal data like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels at ease talking with you online. Don’t attempt to rush her into meeting [with you face-to-face. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Be patient, patient, patient!.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and your job. A strong relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Sooner or later, she will find out the truth anyway and then you are back to square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. So an idea would be to post a few pictures of yourself carrying out your daily activities and make them full body, not just of your head. After all. if you were dating a girl in the real world she would not just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her.
After all, you have nothing to hide, have you? And everything to gain. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. So, the only thing left to do is to is make her feel safe meeting you.
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