It can be tough on the gay dating scene. You’re looking for a partner to share time with and connect intimately and you find someone who either wants to use you or isn’t interested at all.
And then you come across the guys in total denial that still think they’re straight, but still want to fool around with a guy.
Here’s how to create a real gay relationship…
Here are my top tips for healthy gay dating.
Only Date Gay Men - Don’t waste your time trying to get someone who is only considering what it would be like to be gay. Although they may be experimenting, you could develop feelings and they move on and you’re left with a hurting heart.
Get In Shape - Ok, gay guys can be pretty superficial when it comes to looks. If you’re in shape, you have a better chance of getting a hot guy to be hot for you. A physically fit body looks great and if you’re trying to get a hot stud, you should try to be one.
Don’t Give It Up Easily - Be different and make him work for it. Men always want to jump into bed quickly. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, spend a few dates making out and holding hands before you go any further. Let the attraction build and talk about your futures together before jumping into bed. It’ll weed out the guys who are only looking for a quick fling.
Meet More People - Go to more gay activities. Go clubbing, attend parties at gay friend’s houses. Be social and get to know the people you meet. If you meet more available guys, your chances for finding the perfect guy is going to be a lot higher than if you stay home lonely.
Go Online - There are more tools now for gay men to connect than ever before. If you know which ones to use, you can have instant luck with gay dating services. Some are scams, so you’ll want to find people who have successfully used them and then you’ll get lucky to. If you have an iphone, you can even find gay guys within miles of where you’re at 24/7.
The bottom line is to use common sense. A serious relationship won’t be built if there isn’t a real connection and serious trust. Many people are only looking to hook up physically, but it can damage your self esteem if you are too promiscuis.
Of course it can also be a lot of fun to just hook up with guys randomly from time to time. After all we all have needs. If you do it responsibly, you can have a lot of wonderful experiences with a lot of cool and attractive guys that you’ll remember forever.
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