Psst… do you want to know the secret to getting dates with sexy singles and heaps of good loving’?
Of course you do. You wouldn’t be reading this article if you didn’t. Well here it is: take action. It’s not very profound I know. But take my word for it, it’s the only way to get the relationship you want.
You can spend hours talking about your past relationships, the reasons they didn’t work out and detailing the negatives of your exes. Or you can bitch and moan about the man/woman drought in your neighbourhood. But all that hot air won’t get you a new lover.
If you’re truly serious about getting a new relationship then you need to start taking action. Quit talking, get off your butt and get out there. No more excuses, procrastination and chickening out.
First you have to put yourself in places where singles are: parties, night school, the university bar, nightclubs, sports clubs… whatever works for you. Perhaps it’s time to try online dating?
When you come across someone you like, the most difficult part is the initial approach. So most people keep putting it off. But suddenly you realise that beautiful stranger has gone home, never to be seen again.
That’s the reason your magical dating secret is ACTION! Do not put your introduction off for later. ACT NOW.
At first it’s hard, but with practice you’ll be able to approach people without hesitation. Examine your fears. Are they realistic? Only a bone fide sadist is going to humiliate you in public. Most people are flattered by some attention, so go for it! If they’re not interested, not to worry, on to the next one.
Relationships don’t just happen by chance. It’s up to you take swift action when a good opportunity presents itself.
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