When playing the game of seduction, establishing mutual tactility is important. Your success rate in picking up women may very well depend if you can establish physical closeness with them. Some women are just not that easy to let you play the game. Some women do not respond well to your being touchy with her. So how do you go about this situation? How do you proceed seducing girls without appearing disrespectful?
Too many times men just go at it and end up freaking the girl out. A too aggressive attempt to physical closeness will not fair well with girls.
Some men will not risk putting a girl off so they do not go about touching them. With this, men are misconstrued that they are not interested, when in fact they are; they are misconstrued to be timid to make the move, when in fact they are really not. To avoid being thought of by girls to be either of these categories, how do men proceed then?
In order to not appear disrespectful to girls, here are a few basic procedures you can follow. This allows you to appear confident and being able to get away with some casual, relaxed physical contact. In this way, the girls will not feel cheap with your approach since you are respecting their personal boundaries as well.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
There is some psychology at play here. An outside of a woman’s arms is not considered too intimate for you to touch when talking with her. It is a categorized as a casual touch but sends a strong signal still that you are a personable guy. Try it out and see the results.
2. Having already talked with her for some time, don’t do without the casual touching. This will increase the level of closeness each feels for the other. More so, the physical attraction is heightened as time passes by. So do this correctly and you will increase your chances of success. You can use what has been called Stealth Tactility to proceed effectively.
Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesnt know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?
Some men think that having secured a second date is already enough. Well, most of the times it is. But if you really want to leave a lasting impression, you should leave her a kiss as you go–just to give her something to think about on the next date. It is always to your advantage to play some psychology a little so that she will consistently think about you.
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