Think of it. The most gorgeous women in the room is on your arm.
Her eyes light up as your stare catches yours. Her laugh is contagious and drowns out the rest of the crowd. You know at that moment that this is a woman that you want to see again.
But what is it about her that makes you feel so attracted to her? The qualities that make her along with anyone else more attractive, are: your smile, your laugh, your banter, your entertainment, and your shared experiences. Master these qualities to become the man that every woman wants to be with.
Attraction Key #1: YOUR SMILE
A person with a great smile can make anyone feel comfortable. The secret to a great smile lies in the eyes not your mouth.
If you are ever in Los Angeles, you will find out fast why it is called Tinsel Town. Most smiles are forced in Los Angeles that leaves most people on the receiving end with a fake feeling. Tinsel may be pretty at first, but it is inauthentic, and easily detectable as fake. Take the time to build a pleasant state of mind required to transmit warm, sincere smiles.
Attraction Key #2: YOUR LAUGH
“Nothing shows a man’s character more than what he laughs at.” When you ask most women what is the most attractive quality that they find in a man, the majority of women will respond: a sense of humor. You do not need to be the funniest person in the room, but having a sense of humor and knowing when to laugh and laughing often is one of the most attractive qualities a man can possess. The best way to find things to laugh at, is by not taking yourself to seriously. Life is made to be enjoyed. What better way to show enjoyment, than to laugh.
Attraction Key #3: YOUR BANTER
Simply put: Banter is teasing, combines with flirtation. One of the best comedians that has witty and comedic banter is Conan O’Brien. He selflessly pokes fun at himself in his jokes. Simply put, banter show confidence. Banter shows that you are not a boring individual and are willing to extend outside your comfort zone.
Use banter to inject a mood of easy and silliness into your conversations. The ability to banter effectively, gives people the feeling that you are confident in you ability to get along with people. The key is to banter successfully so that your date banters back on the point of teasing. Practice this by noticing how you talk and give you male friends a hard time.
Attraction Key #4: YOUR ENTERTAINMENT
Who is she going to call when she wants to have fun? If you want it to be you, combine the aspects of smiling, laughing, and banter, then mix in some activities that you can enjoy together. Try to make choices based on your commonalities. Do you like the same kind of music? Go to a concert. Are you both entertained by the same genre of film? See a movie together. Are you both entertained by the same kind of fine arts? Check out an art museum or gallery.
Attraction Key #5: YOUR SHARED EXPERIENCES
Take her breath away. Sharing experiences with someone brings out dormant emotions that were once lost. Take a her on new adventures that she only dreamed up in her deepest fantasies. The key is to notice the emotional state she is in when experiencing these new adventures. The ability to conjure up these emotions brings out a high level of attraction. Become the man to sweep her off her feet by allowing her to share her emotional experiences with you.
Which of these keys have you truly mastered? A lot of people are funny around their friends, but can’t seem to have a good time and laugh with new people. Have you ever experienced that? Real mastery of these skills means you can employ them in any social situation. This is your opportunity to learn, practice, perfect, and use.
Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Academy have the tools to make you a better pick up artist by helping get the girl you have always wanted by bettering these 5 key attraction principals that every man should have!!!!
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