When you feel that trying to win back your ex is no longer a possibility, fact of the matter is 95% of relationships that fail can still be saved.
There is always hope, all it takes is for at least one person wanting to save the relationship and it can be done.
First thing to do is to avoid contact with them for at least a month or longer than that. Never attempt to contact them so give them time to sort things out and find out what they really want.
Often times in the heat of the breakup things get said and positions get taken that given time, are soon relinquished as reasoning takes over. So if you want to get to the heart of how to get back with your ex then seriously, give yourself and your ex some time.
Don’t insist on getting back together with your ex if the time isnt right. You might be doing more harm than good. Leave them alone for a while and give them ample time to think.
If you’re worried that all looks lost because your ex is dating someone else, then you need to remember and hold onto the fact that a lot of rebound relationships just don’t last. Chances are your ex is dating that person as a way to convince themselves that their relationship with you is really over. However, just because they’re trying to convince themselves their relationship with you is over for good. Guess what? It doesn’t mean that it is.
It is a statistical fact that rebound relationships are fraught with difficulties and very rarely work because the person on the rebound is still emotionally connected to their ex. So don’t waste a whole lot of time worrying about someone your ex is currently dating.
Truth of the matter is, if you want to reconcile with your ex then this is about the two of you. Make sure that you take care of yourself, stay friends with them and be in control of your life. Pretty soon they will want you back and you will find them back in your arms.
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