Nice guys finish last in almost every situation, simply because, to put it quite bluntly, they are too nice to the women they are interested in. This might sound rather peculiar to a lot of people, especially those who are fairly new or an experience to dating. However, it makes perfect sense when you think about it.
Although the opposite is certainly not true, it is certainly not a good idea to be excessively nice. This makes you look weak and completely out of control in your situation. Most women like a degree of manliness in their men.
If you constantly do everything that she wants and follower her around constantly complimenting her and buying her presence, then you are going to be what all your friends will probably call ‘under the thumb’. You will be turned into a laughing stock and people will start not to take you seriously, including all other women.
It looks pitiful, but while you should not be overpowering either, you should assert some degree of power to be in control of your own destiny. This doesn’t mean to say you need to boss women around at all, but being overly enthusiastic is something that is just going to put them off.
A degree of forcefulness, control and the chaser all things of women tend to love. Being in control of the situation before you make your approach and during your approach is the key to success. You will also save a lot of aggro if you don’t give her the power to reject you.
Always, nice guys finish last, simply because they are not doing things in the right way. They’re trying to take too much notice and pay too much attention to the women in question and this comes across as obsessive and if anything, outright pushy. This is enough to turn any normal woman off completely.
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