Have you ever made a woman cringe? I know I have. Before I studied attraction like a science I had many experiences where my attraction destroying habits literally made a woman make a terrible face and pull away from me entirely. And there’s probably nothing more painful than that look. But it was worth it for me. Because I dug deep and searched out answers within myself and from every resource I could think of to get this whole “women and dating” thing down. I wanted to know what caused that horrible face and never do the things that created it again. I learned a few valuable things in my journey. Here are 3 things you need to know immediately:
1. You have to know how to tease a woman correctly. If you cannot playfully joke with a woman and do it right, then you will seem boring. If you can get her laughing and at the same time make her wonder whether she has lost her chance of being with you, then you are doing it right. A lot of guys think its about being a jerk to a woman. Its not. Its more about projecting mixed messages and still being funny at the same time. Teasing a woman is definitely an art.
2. Learn how to flirt with women correctly. Unfortunately most men are not naturally good at flirting. Men like to be straight-forward when they talk to women and this is why it often goes wrong. Flirting is about having multiple meanings in what you are saying in a conversation. If you talk to her like you would talk to your guy friends, her attraction for you will be mild at the very best. The secret is in communicating with her emotions rather than her intellect or logic. Flirting is the language of attraction. Learn it or suffer the consequences.
3. You have to learn how to create the emotion of sexual tension. If you cannot create the emotion of sexual tension with a woman, she won’t care to get to know you beyond just a friend. Sexual tension is created by something I refer to as “perceived roadblocks” that you create and tear down at the right times. This strategy creates a rollercoaster-like series of emotions inside a woman and she will be uncontrollably attracted to you.
These are 3 big characteristics of guys who are naturally good with women. It’s what separates you from the men who bore her and the men who she can’t stop thinking about.
For more details on how to attract women check out the Real World Attraction free crash course video. You can also check out the Real World Attraction blog for more great tips on meeting and dating women.
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